The 8 Stages of Erikson’s Theory of Development

It’s important for parents, teachers, and other caregivers, such as staff at teen rehab treatment centers, to be able to guide children and teens through healthy social-emotional development stages of their growth. To help with this, an understanding of some basic psychology is worthwhile. A psychologist by the name of Erik Erikson identified eight specific psychological development stages that occur throughout a person’s lifetime; “Each stage is regarded by Erikson as a “psychosocial crisis,” which arises and demands resolution before the next stage can be satisfactorily negotiated.” Erikson’s theory of development is called psychosocial development. In other settings, it may be referred to as socioemotional development.

Each stage of development is identified by a particular virtue that must be learned (i.e., hope, will, purpose, etc.), an existential question that must be answered, and significant relationships that are established. How the individual processes and transitions from each stage of development determines whether he or she will carry the virtue into the remaining life stages. For instance, if an infant transitions into toddlerhood with more trust than mistrust, he or she will carry hope into the other life stages. It is particularly important for teen parents and caregivers to understand these developmental stages, in order to understand where your teen may need more developmental support and focus, should they be showing signs of behavioral or emotional struggles.

Stage Of Development #1: Hope: Trust Vs. Mistrust (0–2 Years)

In this child psychological development stage, infants learn trust if they are nurtured, comforted, and made to feel secure. The mother is their most significant relationship during this time; their most pressing existential question is, “Can I trust the world?” If the infant feels unsafe or abandoned or has basic needs that go unmet, he or she will learn that the world is a dangerous place and develop a sense of mistrust.

Stage Of Development #2 Will: Autonomy Vs. Shame And Doubt (2–4 Years)

Toddlers enters a period of exploration and begin to exercise their will in this stage of development. They want (and should be encouraged) to learn to do things on their own. During this stage, they learn how to dress themselves, how to go to the bathroom, etc. The question to be answered is, “Is it okay to be me?” Parents are the significant relationship at this stage. Toddlers learn whether they are capable of doing things from their parents. If they are overprotected, controlled, or ridiculed, a negative sense of shame and doubt in their own abilities could develop.

Stage Of Development #3 Purpose: Initiative Vs. Guilt (4–5 Years)

In Erikson’s theory of development, in this stage “Purpose: Initiative vs. Guilt”, the child’s significant relationships broaden to include all family members and their explorative nature expands to learning things like riding a bike, playing with other children, planning play activities, and leading and following in play. The child will ask many questions. Here the question is, “Is it okay for me to do, move, and act?” If a child is made to feel like a nuisance or is overcorrected, they may develop a sense of guilt that cripples initiative in later psychological development stages. However, if parents encourage a healthy balance between confidence (initiative) and self-control, the child is prepared to live life with a sense of purpose.

Stage Of Development #4 Competence: Industry Vs. Inferiority (5–12 Years)

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During this time, the child enters the school years and their significant relationships expand to include neighbors, school classmates, and teachers. The child is asking, “Can I make it in the world of people and things?” Now, children enter a stage of production—they complete assignments, participate in sports, or learn a musical instrument. They develop either a sense of self-confidence (I can do this) or a sense of failure and inferiority. Parents and teachers carry an important role of instilling a healthy balance between inferiority and overconfidence. This is called the virtue of competence.

Stage Of Development #5 Fidelity: Identity Vs. Role Confusion (13–19 Years)

At this stage of psychosocial development, the child becomes a teenager and begins exploring the questions, “Who am I?” and “Who can I be?” Peers and role models hold significant influence in their lives and the teenager becomes self-aware and begins to establish personal beliefs, values, and goals. Teenagers exert independence and may express differences with the adults in their lives. The important thing for them to learn at this stage is their role in society. A healthy result of this stage of life is the virtue of fidelity, which is the ability to commit to and accept others, regardless of ideological differences.

Stage Of Development #6 Love: Intimacy Vs. Isolation (20–39 Years)

During this social-emotional development stage, the teenager transitions into adulthood and begins developing long-term significant relationships with friends and romantic partners. Young adults are learning how to embrace and experience the positive benefits of intimacy and how to make the sacrifices and compromises required in those types of relationships. When love is not reciprocated (i.e. rejection) or the young adult has difficulty with intimacy and commitments, he or she may revert to isolation, loneliness, and depression. The question in this stage is, “Can I love?”

Stage Of Development #7 Care: Generativity Vs. Stagnation (40–64 Years)

Adults in their middle years need to feel a sense of guiding the next generation (generativity) and ask, “Can I make my life count?” When an adult feels that he or she is positively contributing to society, a feeling of satisfaction and accomplishment results. If not, stagnation results. Their significant relationships extend to their household (i.e., those in their care, which could include teenaged children or aging parents) and workmates. Adults also express this by getting involved in community organizations and activities.

Stage Of Development #8 Wisdom: Ego Integrity Vs. Despair (65–Death)

Senior citizens enter the stage of development where they reflect on their lives and accomplishments and answer the question, “Is it okay to have been me?” If the adult has progressed through all the other stages successfully, a sense of fulfillment and integrity results. Conversely, if aging adults feel they didn’t complete their goals or feel guilt about their past, they may experience despair. The ideal outcome of this stage is the virtue of wisdom, in which the adult imparts their wisdom to mankind.

When to Seek Support for Your Teen

Understanding the natural stages of life and the healthy virtues to be learned in each will help parents and other mentors guide children and teens into healthy adulthood. However, if you feel that your teen is not progressing through the psychological development stages as they should be and could be struggling with a mental health or co-occurring disorder that is halting their ability to grow and mature, help is available. At a teen treatment center, stages that were not properly processed or may have resulted in early childhood trauma, can be addressed to help the teen through their development. Contact us today to find out more information about how we can help your teen.